Once a nice poem states that "a picture paints a thousands words" and that is indeed true. Many things are spoken even in the absence of words. However, sometimes it doesn't necessarily apply. Sometimes, what we need is real words so that we can be understood by the people around us. To communicate is both a science and an art yet it is not very difficult to learn. By communicating well, it is as good as saying that you are capable to tell your feelings to anyone. In addition, anyone who is able to use his body language and his words will be successful in what he really thinks and feels. At this point, a relationship starts.
Almost all healthy and good relationships are commonly based on good communication. When a relationship harnesses a good communication, mutual understanding is promoted. At this point, when each person is able to understand the precise meaning and hidden meaning of what is being done or said, surely they will be able to have a healthy and good relationship. Further, we love it when other people understand us. However, we become irritated when other people don't. And here lies how we derive a good from a bad relationship.
It is very inevitable for us to have a bad relationship due to bad communication with someone we love in one point in time. So how do you solve this problem?
The best thing to do about this is to ask for clarifications. Other people are pissed off on how other people ask them in a manner that would surely irritate them. Ask them in a good way that would not hurt his sanity in any way. Besides, you are looking for clarifications and not violent reactions, right? Try to use soothing and kind words like "please." Also, be very sincere in making requests. After all, any good intention to improve any relationship starts from sincerity.
As a good communicator, you must also listen. If neither of you listen, nothing will happen. After all, we are talking about communication and it will not be called as such if no one between you listens.
Good communication is the key for a healthy relationship. Through this, you are assuring mutual understanding with your partner that will serve as a cornerstone for your relationship can stand the test of time. Besides, learning to communicate well is not difficult. All we need is an earnest urge understand and be understood. Even animals communicate through body language. What more with us humans?
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